Wanted: Parents to adopt
Older children, sibling groups, those from mixed heritage backgrounds and children with additional needs are waiting longer for adoption it has been revealed as part of an effort to highlight adoption during Adoption Fortnight.
The region faces a shortage of adopters for these children. There are many children that can wait over a year to be adopted, once it has been decided that adoption is the best route for them.
Adopt North West, which represents 22 of the region’s local authorities, including Blackburn with Darwen Council, says that many adopters look for younger children and babies, so when a child reaches the age of three they are more likely to be waiting over a year.
Once they reach seven years old their chances of finding an adoptive family fall dramatically.
Boys can wait longer than girls to be adopted, as can children from mixed heritage backgrounds and ethnic minorities.
Adoption Fortnight runs from April 17 to April 28 and aims to highlight to prospective parents the joys that adopting these children can bring to your forever family.
Bethan, 49, is a single parent who adopted a brother and sister. She said: “I was used to having two children around, from my previous marriage and I liked the idea of them having each other. They are from a mixed heritage background. That hasn’t caused us any issues. My daughter isn’t really aware of this, but my son has asked some questions, so we talk about it.
“We feel like a family now. When the children got their adoption certificates they took them to school to present them. I want them to be proud. Yes they are adopted, that is a fact, but we are a family.”
Zoe, also adopted a sibling group, she said: “As our daughter was six years old when we adopted her, there was some consideration that she might need to be separated from her brother to increase his chances of adoption. Older children are less likely to be adopted. We were so happy to take them both.”
As part of Adoption Fortnight there will be a series of events across the north west region.
Councillor Maureen Bateson, Blackburn with Darwen Council’s Executive Member for Children’s Services, said: “We are keen to encourage potential adopters to get in touch if they are open to taking a child from the ‘harder to place’ groups including children over the age of three, brothers and sisters and children with additional needs.
“We know getting in touch for the first time is a big step but Adopt North West is available to answer any questions you might have and talk you through the process if you’d like to make an application. There is a lot of support for you if you do choose to start the adoption process.”
You can visit www.adoptnorthwest.co.uk to find out more about children waiting for adoption as well as enquire about becoming an adoptive parent, or you can contact Lets Adopt directly at firstname.lastname@example.org or on 01254 666806.
Follow the campaign on social media at @Adopt_NW Watch the film at www.youtube.com/watch?v=cpbW0H3ze-I&feature=youtu.be
North Manchester Information Evening
18th April – 6-8pm
Higher Lane Centre, Higher Lane, Whitefield, M45 7FX Come and meet staff from the adoption team and adopters at this informal event. You can book by calling Adopt North West on 0333 400 1230 or just turn up on the night.